Stand For

Do you know what you stand for? Not stand against…but stand for? What interests you? What encourages you & fires you up? What do you fight for? What do you stand for? I wrote a little manifesto a few months back. My Beloved laughed saying “ you never talk about that, you aren’t that!” I … Continue reading Stand For


I feel angry. I wanna be fearless. I am over worrying about what everyone else thinks. I wrote three posts last week. All about entirely different things. Underneath these three posts was a current of the same theme. I then thought- oh, no one wants to read about my miserable meme. I won’t share them. … Continue reading Clan

Making Lemonade

  After all these years of parenting and working hard I realised life is really about taking lemons and making lemonade. As a parenting duo we have both hit the 40’s and realised we are not where imagined we would be. Far from it. It hurts, its embarrassing and demoralising. That’s just how it goes it … Continue reading Making Lemonade


  Recently Caspian’s big brother Max, asked me if I wanted Caspian to be normal like him, ever? Thankfully I asked him “Why?”, “you seem to love him as he is” was his reply. Little did Max know I had been striving and straining for that end result. It had cost me a lot of … Continue reading Love


Well faithful travellers, you may be wondering where I have been? I have been to BLAND land and it was so boring there I did not feel like sending you a postcard. Caspian and I took a small excursion to Spice city, accidental exposure to MSG mountain and the return journey was a disaster!!! Combine … Continue reading Travelling